Every time I call one of my longstanding clients, I get an
unusual, yet uplifting, answer to one of life’s most mundane and often
insincere questions. I ask him, like everyone
does, almost on autopilot, “How are You?"
He always responds “I’M ABSOLUTELY BLOOMIN FABULOUS!” He says it with
such zest and authenticity that it genuinely takes you by surprise, and it’s a
great tonic.
So, last week after many
years of laughing and joking about it, I asked him why he responds so
bombastically and the response was more insightful than I imagined.
He said, firstly, that it made him personally feel positive,
good about himself and reenergised.
He then said that it also seemed to have a positive impact
on everyone whom he came into contact with and regularly sparked conversation (like
the one we were having!). And, as a hands-on
Sales Manager himself, this obviously this had a favorable impact as people
remembered him.
But the thing I found most enlightening was when he said, “look,
I’ve got my health, food on the table, a roof over my head, a wife and kids who
love me, and I live in a Western
democracy. I reckon I’m one of the
luckiest 2% of the people in the world alive today."
He said that every time he found himself seething that he
has to wait four minutes to queue to fuel his car or that the Sauvignon Blanc
is priced incorrectly in the local shop, he has to reframe his mind to say to
himself “if this is the worst thing that’s happening to me at the moment, then
I’m a very, very lucky man."
I wish I could pull it off with his authenticity, but I’m
going to try - “I’M ABSOLUTELY BLOOMIN’ FABULOUS!”